Dear Editor,
I am writing to express my concern over the excessive spending on Sheva Brachos, parlor meetings, and so on in our communities. It seems that these celebrations have turned into something resembling a fancy wedding, complete with singers, orchestras, and catering that is far beyond what is necessary.
While Sheva Brachos are certainly a time to celebrate, it is important to remember that they are meant to be a simple and joyous occasion. The focus should be on the chosson and kallah, and friends and family coming together to wish them well as they begin their married life.
Unfortunately, what we are seeing now is a trend towards over-the-top spending that is completely out of control. The amount of money being spent on these celebrations is simply staggering, and it is clear that this is not what this simchos and events are supposed to be about.
By turning these events into something that is more like a fancy wedding, we are raising the bar to a ridiculous level and causing tremendous damage.
I urge our community to reconsider this trend and to return to the simple and joyous celebrations. Let us focus on the true purpose of these events, and do so in a way that is inclusive and respectful of everyone in our community.
Sincerely,
H.L.