Dear Editor@Matzav.com,
Over the last two months, I’ve had guests almost every week for simchos – aufrufs, sheva brachos, bar mitzvahs, etc. I am appalled by a lack of basic courtesy and respect that I’ve experienced.
When staying in someone else’s home, we should treat it with the utmost care . It is a fundamental expectation that guests should leave the accommodation in the same, if not better, condition than they found it. However, it appears that some orchim either forget or choose to ignore this.
I cannot comprehend the audacity of those who believe it is acceptable to simply walk away, not bothering to take off the linen! Seriously?!
It is not merely the physical act of leaving linens on the bed that irks me as a host. It is the total disregard for the effort and consideration that goes into preparing a comfortable and welcoming space for orchim.
For crying out loud, take off the linen! 
Beyond the inconvenience caused to hosts, this inconsiderate behavior reflects a broader issue—namely, a total decline in basic mentchlichkeit. The failure to remove linen  demonstrates a self-centered mindset, as if the individual’s time and convenience are of greater importance than the comfort and well-being of their hosts.
It is disheartening to witness the decline of basic mentchlichkeit, etiquette and respect.
Sincerely,
Your Host