A recent study of the Israel-Lebanon war’s impact on children and teens found that most have developed significant emotional challenges, made worse by a lack of proper adult guidance, Ynet reported. Noam (not his real name), a father of three and a mental health professional from northern Israel, described the war’s impact on his children. “Our oldest acts as if everything is normal, but she’s extremely tense and grappling with deep fears. Our middle child suffers from severe anxiety – at night, she curls up silently and cries, as if she wants to disappear. She’s terrified to be alone, even at home. Meanwhile, our youngest runs to the safe room at the slightest sound.” “It’s a roller coaster. The root of the problem lies in the system’s inability to handle the situation. Nobody has taken the time to speak with educators about what their behavior during a missile alert means for the children, how to support a child dealing with anxiety, or the impact of overhearing adults discuss the crisis. Most of the challenges we face come from the fear instilled in children due to unprofessional handling. While we sought support from the educational psychology service on our own initiative, there’s been no proactive outreach, no guidance, no parental training. These are critical resources that simply don’t exist.” As a mental health expert, Noam fears the long-term consequences of the situation. “Children are developing deep-seated anxieties, a lack of independence, difficulty in growth, low frustration tolerance, diminished self-esteem, social withdrawal, and nighttime bedwetting. This is the reality. There will be no true recovery. These kids, already struggling with deficits from the pandemic, are now facing yet another year of disruption. The emotional scars are growing, and there are no sufficient interventions.” “Nadav,” a father of three from Kiryat Shmona, described the impact of living in a city that was evacuated shortly after the October 7, 2023 attack. “It’s losing every pillar of stability in your life – your home, your room, your bed and the familiar neighborhood, friends, youth movements, schools and activities. All of that disappeared overnight and was replaced by a makeshift existence: a hotel room, then one apartment, then another. There’s no stability, and my kids are afraid to form attachments because they know it’s all temporary. I see it in them – they don’t want to invest emotionally because they sense another transition is coming. It’s this constant tension.” His children also suffered from academic setbacks. “At their regular school, we had resources like integration hours to address gaps. In the current framework, those resources aren’t available. I don’t know how these gaps, which feed into issues like self-confidence and life skills, will ever be closed. While we had better support during the hotel phase, once we moved out, those resources disappeared. The availability of services depends entirely on the specific staff at each school.” The ceasefire has not helped improve matters: “My youngest is experiencing regressions, including temper tantrums we thought were behind her. These resurfaced in the last two weeks as talks of a cease-fire brought everything back to the surface. On one hand, it’s exciting to go back, but on the other, it raises so many fears. What will it be like? Will it be safe?” The study was carried out at the […]